HEADLESS MANNEQUIN Flees NYC Apartment

Mannequin_flees_annette005_edited_3She had her time here sinceMannequin_flees_annette001_edited we met outside Baltimore--huge vintage store in Ellicott City--um, 20 years ago.  Never dignified with her own name, she appeared at a couple of my shows, but had less respect as time went on and she was a neck to hang stuff--compost and other neckpieces.  Nothing really glamorous like the old days.

Mannequin_flees_annette016_edited "Can I borrow her?  I'm doing a graduation dress for my niece,"  my neighbor Annette explained.  An opportunity to downsize gave the answer, "Take her!  Keep her!"

Mannequin_flees_annette007_editedSally Stitch, Push Button Dress Form, could morph through a range of sizes.   The idea of her actually being used thrills me; she has moved on, just across the street, into a better place, one of industry and value.  She joins another taking-up-space memory, one with no function at all.

Nanney_visit_granthouse_cleanup002_Woven stainless steel wire cloth.  Purchased around the same time as Sally Stitch when I was entranced by everything woven and not cloth.Wirecloth_blue_plastic_mexico Wirecloth_copper Copper wirecloth, blue plastic from Mexico, green, black windown screen (made Condom Amulet from this)--all had their moment.  But the stainless steel was this artist's conceit.  A curved piece, 2 by 4 feet, should have been included in my house sale in Baltimore.  But no, all 20 pounds came to Harlem. 

Thanks to a visiting crochet artist, Laurie Anne Sims, it too has now fled to another life. Laurie came and stayed overnight--she was helping Nan Kennedy who'd brought her Sea Colors Yarn to Knitty City a few weeks ago.  Because Laurie too is drawn to stuff like wirecloth, I asked if she'd take the piece home to Brunswick, Maine.  "Oh, sure!"  She got it-- with the tag attached.  Fortunately there was room in their very full-of-yarn van.  And now it's lighter here.

Lisa Daehlin Sings Saturday, NYC...

Lisa_d_purse_interweave_press_4 Join us May 17 if you're in the City.Lisa_and_louis_in_concert_17_may__2(Enlarge invitation for details.)

Singing brought Lisa here from Minneapolis a few years ago.  Along the way she discovered her "inner-knitter," now creates designs for publications like this "Lace Dolly Purse" in the Bag Style book, Interweave Press.

Condomamuletbrapouchopen_lisa_web_2 Knitting brought us together at the original UWS (upper west side) Knitting Circle when she amazed us with her riffs on lacy scarves.  In 2007, a supporter of the Knit a Condom Amulet Project, she created three unusual patterns that are among the most-viewed on the site.  To answer those who have asked how to use the Breast Pouch and Bra, a friend modeled for the photo at the left. It's on Lisa's own new website, DeLisa.us.

Two years ago, she developed knitting and crochet classes for the Continuing Ed roster at Cooper Union--famous for architecture and engineering programs.  And there's her day job! 

Someday there's going to be an opera about knitting and singing and the days and nights of a creative woman in this city.  Word is that there's someone ready to do the libretto, another who'd write the music to encompass her many paths-- 

Lisa_granny_square_flyer_kc Crochet class flyer

Hkc_lisa_roxiehats009_edited Teaching at Harlem Knitting Circle...

Audreymask_kc_event_lisad005_edit_3With Eunny Jang, Interweave Knits Editor, at Knitty City... demos use of Breast Pouch for business cards, an action view.

By the way, if you're here for the weekend, Sunday, May 18, is AIDS WALK New York, more information at www.aidswalk.net or call (212) 807 9255.

 

DOING FEMINISM: Not so hard*

10_questions_to_ask__small_sized_2Many times I'ive tried to do this again-- adapt the little 1977 booklet from my days in Baltimore's NOW (National Organization for Women) to lives of older women.

Several tries--Gray Panthers, The Transition Network-- had not sparked enthusiasm.    Then I saw a notice in the New York City NOW newsletter earlier this year about a group starting with a focus on "senior women."

At the first meeting we talked about why we were there--support mostly.  A couple of us were interested in action/advocacy projects.  Not one to miss an opportunity, I'd brought along the 1977 booklet, suggested we update it.  We have done that.  Questions Women Over 55 Should Ask Their Doctors is a one-page flyer and was featured in the Spring 2008 issue of "WhatNOW," the chapter's hard copy quarterly publication.

The most challenging part?  Locating photos of older women doctors/healthcare providers (not blonde)  to use in the flyer.

Woman_doc_now_flyer_2We briefly addressed three areas:

-- Preparing for a visit to the doctor;

--Questions to ask during the visit;

Healtcare_woman_with_2_others_2 --Getting the information you need before you leave.

Finally, we invite women to join our renamed "Boomer and Senior Women's Network," which has a place on the chapter website.  Each of us took copies of the new flyer to distribute--laundry rooms in our buildings, senior centers.  At the meeting this week, a 79 year old actress who described herself as a radical feminist was among four new members. 

Who are we?  Besides the actress and myself, there may be one or two others who'd use the f-word to self-describe.  In many ways we are as varied as women in 1966 when NOW, this very chapter, was founded.  "This is my first time at anything like this," was a comment that surprised me.  Only the actress and I have longtime histories with NOW.  Among the twelve of us we're different colors, transplants to the U.S., former teachers-- of course.  "We need to do consciousness-raising around aging," was a suggestion you would not have heard in the sixities!

Dux_femina_magnet_small_edited *This post is dedicated to Katha Pollitt who this week in The Nation magazine ended her column, with a plea, "Feminism, please call home!"  So glad that I'd had this woman-affirming experience before I read "Backlash Spectacular" on the source of her distress.

Washington University (St. Louis) is about to give Phyllis Schlafly, the anti-feminist, an honorary degree.  Good grief, that awful conservative. Only other place I've seen about it is WomensEnews as one of their Jeers of the week.  WashU was a politically regressive institution in the 1940s and 50s when I lived there; old habits die hard.  Cheers to graduating students and faculty who plan to protest.

   

"STRETCH (a fantasia)," must-see play, hurry...

Stretch_nixon_2 Next week we re-visit playwright Susan Bernfield's wondrous evocation of all things Nixonian--and its dependence on dependent women-- STRETCH (a fantasia).  Runs through May 26.  You need to decide as you read this to buy one of its cheap tickets (under $25), because it has just received an over-the-top review in The New York Times.

Last July, I wrote here about my amazement at how far the piece had come since its first, fledging outing.  Now, in it's third re-working, it's having a longer run.  Not long enough in my book.  We have much to learn from the aging Rose Mary Woods, loyal secretary to Nixon, as she remembers the past from her wheelchair in an Ohio nursing home.

This richly detailed image (click to enlarge) of objects creating a Nixon portrait was designed for the show's  advertising by Another Limited Rebellion who see their work as "design therapy." It's a veritable kitchen sink of elements from the play--contemporary campaign stickers, reel-to-reel audio tapes, cocktail glasses.  And typewriters, so central to this political tale.  All supports Susan Bernfield's view that connects yesterday and today in America's ongoing dysfunctional political landscape.   The vintage click-clack of an IBM Selectric is one of several instruments in the Rachel Peters' music for the play.

Kristin Griffith plays Woods, young and old, and is terrific.  "Commanding performance," the Times noted up front in its review.  Another actress over 50, I'd add--and it's about time. 

My wish in last year's post was that STRETCH would return for  longer  than a four day run.  Okay, its one month this time.  More, more, please!

 

Women with Wrinkles--Acting!

Carol Rosegg's photoKathleen_chalfant_and_patricia_elli appeared in the New York Times review of "Vita & Virginia," one of two plays I enjoyed last month in their final perfomances. The pose was not replicated by Kathleen Chalfant, left, as Virginia Woolf and Patricia Elliott as Vita Sackville-West.  They were always at a distance of several feet apart. 

Each stood behind a music stand with the script before her.  Often one or the other would turn to direct her words to her partner, but they were never close.  This seemed right since the text was letters.  And pointed up the geographic and emotional distance in their relationship.  Some of that had to do with their class difference, some with Woolf's reluctance to be intimate.    "I was always sexually cowardly," Woolf writes in one early letter.

Eileen Atkins has adapted a correspondence that spanned rom the 1920s through early World War II. Atkins, a woman of many theatrical parts--actor, writer was the co-creator of the British TV series, "Upstairs, Downstairs." (From the halcyon days of the early 1970s when parents and children sat together to watch television.)  As skillfully as she's assembled the letters, Atkins' adaptation is enhanced by the two women who performed.  (Atkins herself appeared as Woolf in the first production of "Vita & Virginia.")

You will not be surprised that the audience was older women like me.  Two younger women sat next to me and I would have liked to know  if they had many friends who'd come to see it.  There's a picture HERE of Chalfant who looked just right--wrinkles not hidden and reading glasses with extended earpieces perched at the end of her nose--to be playing Virginia Woolf.   She and Elliott made me feel I was walking in an English garden and overhearing an intimate conversation between two very verbal women struggling with their times and complex choices--married to men and somewhat closeted lesbians.

[I now long for a pair of these "funky" glasses which seem more to the point and more glamourous than my ordinary bi-focals .]

Kitty_and_lina_performers_april_200Two days later, we went to an itty-bitty space on MacDougal Street in Greenwich Village for "Kitty and Lina" --unknown to us except through a review in the Times.  Once again the publicity photo gives a skewed idea of what's ahead.  Sitting in the audience before the play began, we wondered why there was only one chair next to a small round table.  Would one of the actors stand throughout the performance?

No.  First Jennifer Boutell appeared as Kitty and told a story of coming eagerly to New York from a Baptist family in Texas.  We listened as her dream of joining the Actors' Studio and stardom elluded her. Life became drearier as she struggled to make ends meet.  She exited.

Lina, played by Marilyn Bernard, pranced into view and immediately engaged us. As a starter, she advised she was a pretty snappy woman who would go home with one of the men in the audience.  Gliding to the chair, she pulled a cigarette out of her purse, put it into a holder, then was briefly indignant with the stage manager when told she could not smoke in the theatre. 

In her life story of a single woman in 1950 and 60s New York, I was reminded of women I'd known who had a great deal of charm and few skills.  Often their road to survival was pleasing men.  That's Lina.   We meet her after many years of an affair with an older married man, who has left her for a woman the age she was when she arrived in the City.  Now alone in a youthful New York, she is, in the words of the Times' reviewer, "saucy and poignant." Another terrific older woman in theatre...three in one week!